Using The Law of Attraction in Relationships and Love
Are you attracting the same relationship but with a different face? In other words do all your love relationships turn out the same way? Do you feel the same type of disappointment time after time? Do you feel like you’re running on a treadmill and the scenery stays the same no matter how much you want a change?
The truth is that most of us continue to picture and think about the failed relationships in our past. We think about all of the misery we experienced and the wanting that never got fulfilled.
This is a sure proof way to continue attracting the same kind of relationship and almost a carbon copy of what came before. The timing may be slightly different but you will see startling similarities if you really look.
Relationships- Qualities, Negative and Positive
Can you easily make a list of the qualities in a relationship that you don’t want? Can you just as easily make a list of what you do want? Because when pushed I’ll bet you can easily pick out all the negative but have a more challenging time making a list of what you want.
When you think of what you want do you follow with a thought of how that isn’t possible? Do you feel as if you focus on a positive quality that you shut out the other things you may want?
All of these types of common thought patterns will keep you attracting the same old same old.
Change is difficult to accept even if it’s for the better. Click to Tweet
Think of change and think of your comfort level with it. Most of us resist any kind of change and fear the outcome, yet if we want different things to show up in our life we must accept change.
Dr Wayne Dyer identified this fear that keeps us from love in a great post, called Move Back to Love
Learning to experience authentic love means abandoning ego’s insistence that you have much to fear and that you are in an unfriendly world.
Stay tuned to next week when I’ll be bringing you more on “change” and how accepting change may bring you the Love of Your Life.